Always get reminded

Of how I’ve done the typical thing of flipping and finding a new boyfriend who solves the major problem of the last.

PhD has focus and plans. He’s kept himself on track studying etc.

Today I realized this again because he’s off to Incheon to give a seminar on his research. Definitely liking that idea

…and I still can’t get the Facebook photo of Tomato sitting at a sales desk (which isn’t bad except he never knew where he would be in a month. What town, what company and even if he would have a job).

I definitely learnt from him that I need someone with focus and inner strength.